The Stuff Kids Teach You…
Originally Posted on December 18, 2013 by BJ Howell. This week was an awesome week where I was reminded that every day is a day to learn new things and live life to the fullest. It also reminded me that we need to continue to find positive ways to interact with (and...
Construction Crew or Demolition Crew?
Originally Posted on June 14, 2013 by BJ Howell. What is your child learning from you? I think it goes without saying that children are like sponges; they soak up everything. What they see and hear effects them in one way or another. Sometimes there are visible changes within them. At other times...
Honoring Your “I Am”
Originally Posted on January 2, 2014 by BJ Howell. “I Am” These are two of the most powerful words a person can speak (or think). Whether it is positive or negative, these two words bring about a truth that cannot be denied. According to James Allen, “a man is literally what he...
The Power of Healing in Relationships
Originally Posted on February 14, 2013 by BJ Howell. Fact: Many relationships fail because of a lost connection.Fact: People carry baggage…from childhood hurts, from one relationship to the next, from self imposed beliefs, etc.Fact: Sometimes people unconsciously seek out relationships that mimic previous unresolved emotional wounds. When your relationship is in trouble...
The Dependability of Change
Originally Posted on January 14, 2013 by BJ Howell. Change. It’s constant. It is the push and pull; the give and take; the grinding and molding into something different. Sometimes it is swift and other times it is slow, but it is always purposeful. It is one thing (besides the fear of...
Healing Choices
Originally Posted on January 28, 2013 by BJ Howell. Many individuals experience traumatic events in their lives that can shape and mold their future. Physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, divorce, neglect, being exposed to violence, etc. All of these things have the possibility of leaving traumatic wounds, which can change how...
365 Days of Thanksgiving!
Originally Posted on November 25, 2012 by BJ Howell. Thanksgiving is a one of the most loved holidays. It’s a time when family and friends come together and give thanks for the people and things that are most important to them. Warmth, love and sharing are the trademarks of a good Thanksgiving...
30 Day Challenge – Ignoring the “What if” Bully
Originally Posted on September 21, 2012 by BJ Howell. Last week I started a personal 30 day challenge to give away 30 items in 30 days while keeping my emotions regulated. It’s sort of a challenge to help me live a more minimalist existence, as well as, a self exploration task. I...
Understanding Stress
Originally Posted on August 19, 2012 by BJ Howell. As we work toward an individual plan to handle the stress in our lives, there are some foundational items that we need to discuss. What is stress and how does it manifest in your life? Stress comes in both internal and external forms. It was...